Not to toot my own horn, but I have achieved a lot in life at a young age. I have never had any problems with motivation when it came to work, graduating college, running a successful company, volunteering my time for civic duties, etc. My life is pretty wonderful - I am happily married to the love of my life, have amazing and supportive family/friends, own a house, great company, do activities that I love....everything is perfect…..well….almost perfect. There's one thing I have struggled with most of my life and that's my weight and self image...and the lack of drive I have to improve my own health. My weight/health has been an Achilles heel for me, especially recently. It's not that I haven't wanted to look and feel good, but I never held the motivation long enough to succeed. I was always busy doing everything else to try and conquer the world. It finally got to the point when I had to face my fears head on or my whole world would eventually crumble.
It was not that long ago (June 3, 2011 to be exact) when I made a decision that would change my future life for the better....! I was overweight (obese), self-conscious, unhealthy, and having all sorts of health issues that were attributed to my poor eating habits, lack of sleep and stress. My June 2011 trip to the doctor was an "a-ha" moment that will forever be ingrained in my mind. The doctor told me that if I stayed on the path I was on with my unhealthy ways, it would lead to a very dim future. He wanted to do a second blood test on me because he said I was becoming pre-diabetic. I looked at him like he was crazy, but knew in my heart that he was right...and also knew that he didn't need to do another blood test. I don't know if it was the fear or embarrassment, but I made a decision right then and there that this would be the last time I would ever hear a doctor say that to me.
I went home that day feeling a new sense of determination. I was defeated, but excited because something finally clicked in my head and I knew that changes were a necessity now. I immediately talked to my husband, who has ALWAYS been a rock for me. He has tried to help me in the past to lose weight and feel better, but nothing ever really stuck. I'm Italian - I love food....and when I say that I love food.....I MEAN IT. When we visit my family in New England, all our activities are centered around when and where we are going to eat. The North End of Boston has the best I-Talian food....and we never miss a stop when we are in town. It's not my husband's fault that I have failed in the past - he can only help me so much. Until I made the decision MYSELF to get on the healthy wagon, no one could tell me what to do.
It's not about a diet. Diets come and go. I have done diets out the wazoooo. The GI Diet, Atkins, Vegan, South Beach, Weight Watchers, all whole grains...the list could go on and on. I never lasted on them because I always felt that I was the odd ball out when we went out to dinner with family/friends and when I ate lunch at work. The diet worked in the beginning, but that's what diets are....they are a short term solutions that don't last. You can't remain on a diet for the rest of your life - it's not going to work forever. I needed to look at losing weight and feeling healthy as a LIFELONG change. I needed to change the way I looked at food. It's not that I could never enjoy food again, but I needed to eat to live, not live to eat.
This blog is not about having all of my friends and family jump on the Paleo bandwagon. I just want to share how the Paleo Life is working for me. Everyone is different, I absolutely know that. I have so many friends asking me on a daily basis how and what I am doing, so I thought it might be easier for me to just share it with everyone in one place....simple as that.
As of today, October 30, 2011, I have lost 48 pounds and six dress sizes. I feel amazing. I have more energy now than I have had in years. I went to the doctor last week and ALL of my blood work is completely normal (as is my blood pressure). My work schedule has not slowed down, but I feel my attitude with life and how I handle situations has dramatically changed for the better. I don't have the excessive mood swings that I was experiencing before and all of my health issues attributed to my weight have diminished. I know that I have more poundage to lose until I reach my goal, but I have such a positive outlook and the future is looking bright. I can honestly say that I am finally feeling completely blissful with myself.....so watch out world.
If you are interested in the Paleo (AKA Caveman) Solution.....you should start by reading this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Paleo-Solution-Original-Human-Diet/dp/0982565844/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1320024346&sr=8-1
More to come later on how I started and why I chose the Paleo direction.....